Sometimes, even in the strongest relationships, challenges arise that can threaten the love you and your partner share. Someone might be interfering, trying to create distance and weaken your bond. This can be deeply unsettling, but with a break-up spell, you can take steps to remove this unwanted influence and restore the harmony in your relationship.
This spell is crafted to end infidelity and disruptions by addressing toxic connections that shouldn’t exist in the first place. Its purpose is rooted in love and balance, helping to protect genuine relationships while promoting the principle of harming none. By using this love spell, you are not only removing negativity but also reinforcing the love between you and your partner.
It serves as a way to close the door on dishonesty and open the path to authentic, loving connections. Whether it’s about reclaiming the bond you cherish or ending damaging ties, this ritual offers the clarity and peace needed to move forward.
Ingredients for the Spell to Break Up a Couple
- Pyrex Dish – Used to safely hold and burn materials during the ritual. It allows for controlled burning and prevents any mess or accidental fire.
- Crossing Oil– A special blend meant to create discord and sever unwanted bonds. If homemade, mix equal parts of Pepperwort and Wormwood, combine two tablespoons of the blend with two ounces of a carrier oil (like olive oil), and add a small piece of ground-ivy root. If unavailable, Black Arts Oil can be substituted.
- Two Black Candles – Represent the removal of negativity and the breaking of the connection.
- One Pink Candle – Symbolizes the emotional bond of the couple and serves as the focal point for your intention.
- Picture of the Couple – Acts as a direct link, channeling the spell’s energy to the individuals involved.
- Exacto Knife – Used to inscribe names and symbols into the candles, marking them with specific intent.
- Black Muslin Bag – Holds the ashes and wax – the tangible remnants of the spell – for proper disposal.
- Salt– Used to purify and protect the ritual space, ensuring a safe environment for the spell to work effectively.
Timing for the Spell
This spell is most potent when performed on a Sunday during a Waxing Moon Phase. This timing aligns with energies conducive to growth and transformation, which is essential for the spell’s purpose of change and separation.
Step-by-Step Instructions for the Spell to Break Up a Couple
Prepare Your Ritual Space
Begin by setting up your workspace. Cast a circle around the area to protect your energy and contain the spell’s power. Outline the edge of the circle with salt, which acts as a barrier of purification and protection. This step creates a cleansed, focused atmosphere for the ritual.
Anoint and Carve the Candles
Using the Crossing Oil, anoint the two black candles and the pink candle. Focus on your intent to sever the unwanted relationship as you do this. With the Exacto knife, carve the names of the couple into each candle. Carve a reversed Berkana Rune Symbol into the pink candle as well to symbolize breaking emotional bonds and creating discord. This personalization directs the energy of the spell to your intended target.
Arrange the Candles
Place the candles in the shape of an upside-down triangle. Position the two black candles at the top points to represent destruction and the removal of negativity. Place the pink candle at the bottom point to symbolize the emotional connection being disrupted.
Light the Candles
Begin by lighting the two black candles, followed by the pink candle. This sequence enhances the intention, starting with removing negativity and ending by directly influencing the relationship.
Enter a Deep Meditative State
Sit comfortably within your circle. Close your eyes, center yourself, and enter a meditative state. Visualize the couple in affectionate moments like hugging or kissing. Gradually, imagine this bond fading away. Visualize tension arising, leading to arguments, and finally, see them parting ways. The vividness of your visualization is key in focusing your intention and ensuring the spell’s success.
Burn the Photograph
Place the Pyrex dish in front of the candles to safely catch ashes. Hold the photo of the couple near the flame of the pink candle until it catches fire. Allow yourself to feel the energy of separation as the flames consume the image. While the picture burns, chant the following words several times with focus and intent:
Consequences mean nothing to me
This couple is no more as I will it to be
This is my wish so mote it be
I accept my fate three by three.
Mix the Ashes and Oil
After the photo has turned to ash, add nine drops of Crossing Oil to the ashes in the Pyrex dish. Mix them together thoroughly as you focus on sealing the spell’s intention. This step binds the energy of the spell to the tangible remains.
Gather the Remains
Scoop the mixture of ashes into the black muslin bag. Once the candles have completely burned down, collect the wax remnants from the black candles and add them to the bag. The bag now contains the physical manifestation of the spell’s energy.
Dispose of the Muslin Bag
Take the muslin bag and bury it deep in the earth, at least a mile away from your home. This distance ensures that the energies of the ritual are fully released and do not linger near your space.
Close the Circle and Ground Yourself
After burying the bag, return to your ritual space. Close your circle by thanking the energies you invoked and releasing them. Ground yourself by taking deep breaths or eating something to feel fully present. This step completes the ritual and helps you transition out of its energy.
Coven Tips
Ensure Focus During Visualization: Clarity and intensity in your visualization are key to a successful ritual. Spend time practicing your ability to focus before performing the spell, using meditation or visualization exercises.
- Use the Right Tools: If you cannot prepare your own Crossing Oil, sourcing authentic substitutes such as Black Arts Oil is perfectly acceptable. Ensure your tools and materials are high quality to maintain the spell’s effectiveness.
- Work with Intentions, Not Malice: Always approach this spell with the intention of restoring balance and ending unhealthy relationships, not out of anger or spite. Misaligned intentions could yield unpleasant consequences under the Threefold Law.
- Choose the Right Location for Disposal: When burying the muslin bag, pick a spot unlikely to be disturbed, such as a forest or deserted area. Take time to ensure the bag is buried securely.
- Ground Yourself Properly: After the ritual, grounding is particularly important to release leftover energy and reintegrate yourself. Try walking barefoot on grass, holding grounding stones like hematite, or drinking water as simple methods to recenter.
- Respect Energetic Laws: Keep the Wiccan Rede and Threefold Law in mind. What you send out may return to you threefold, so act responsibly and consider the full implications of your actions.
- Plan Ahead: Gather all your ingredients and prepare your workspace beforehand. Organization ensures the ritual flows smoothly without unnecessary interruptions.
By following these steps and keeping these tips in mind, you can perform the spell effectively and responsibly, aligning your energy with your intentions to guide the outcome towards balance and resolution.
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